18. Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ikati ingatyi, ingaseli, okanye ingachami ekuqaleni xa ingena endlwini. Isizathu sesokuba ayiqhelaniniswa nendawo entsha kwaye inovalo kakhulu. Gcina okusingqongileyo kuthe cwaka kwaye ungaphazamisi ikati ngalo lonke ixesha. Beka amanzi kunye nenkunkuma, ubeke ukutya okumnandi (njengeetoti), kwaye ulinde ikati ukuba ihlolisise ikhaya lakho kwaye ize kuwe. Ngokuqhelekileyo zichacha ngokukhawuleza. I-19 ikati nje inxeba elibuhlungu, amandla e-anesthetic akaphelanga, edibene noloyiko, iintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala zabantu abathanda ukuphendula yinto eqhelekileyo, ayiyonzondo. Akukho mfuneko yokuba "udlale" nogqirha xa ukhutshiwe. Ikati iyakwazi ukubona inkxalabo kunye nokukhathazeka emehlweni akho. Ikati, ingenakunceda, kunokuba "i-cajoling", "i-acting", idinga "wena ngeenxa zonke" ukunika ingqiqo yokhuseleko ah.abenzi bezilwanyana zasekhaya
Amehlo ekati angama-20 ngasentla, iinwele eziphambi kweendlebe zincinci, oku kuxhaphake kakhulu, kungekhona isifo, ungakhathazeki, nje ngokuba akukho nxeba kunye nesilonda siqhelekileyo. Umbi umbi. 21. Sinokwazi ukuba zeziphi izinto zekati, zeziphi izinto zabantu, ziphi na inkunkuma yekati, kunye nezindlu zangasese zekati, kodwa iikati azikwazi ukuxela. Kwikati, ibhokisi yenkunkuma engenanto ayifani nebhokisi yenkunkuma. Ibhola encinci enoboya inokudlala ngebhotile encinci ye-perfume, kwaye akayazi ukuba umthengele eyiphi kwaye uzithengele eyiphi. Ngoko ukuba ikati ayiyithandi into oyithengileyo, yamkela nje ukuba ukuthengwa kwahluleka kwaye ungayisoli ikati.abenzi bezilwanyana zasekhaya
22. Ngokuqhelekileyo, intsapho ineekati ezintathu ubuninzi, kwaye nayiphi na enye iya kukhokelela ekunyamekelweni kakubi. Ukuhlamba ikaka, ukutyisa, ukuphulula, ukudlala, ukumbamba,abenzi bezilwanyana zasekhayaukuxukuxa, ukuzilungisa, njalo njalo, kudla ixesha ngokwenene.
23. Abantu abadala bahlala besithi ikati inokunikezelwa kwinyanga epheleleyo, kodwa ndicebisa ukuba ungayivumeli ikati ishiye unina kwangoko. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ama-kittens kufuneka afunde indlela yokusebenzisa ibhokisi ye-litter kunye nendlela yokunxibelelana nabantu ngokufanelekileyo. Iingxaki zokuziphatha ezinjengokulunywa kunye nokuchama zihlala zinxulunyaniswa nokushiya umama wakho kwangoko, kwaye kungcono ukugcina amantshontsho kunye nonina de abe neenyanga ezimbini okanye ezintathu ubudala.
24. Intonga yekati yinto elungileyo. Iikati ezigcinwe endlwini azisebenzi kangako, nto leyo inokukhokelela kuxinzelelo okanye ukutyeba. Ukubeka nje ixesha elifutshane ngosuku ngalunye ukuze udlale nekati yakho ingaba yindlela enhle yokunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokulahlekelwa kwesisindo. Kwakhona kunokunciphisa umonakalo onokuthi ikati yakho iyenze kwenye ifanitshala kunye nosapho lwakho. Ukudlala ngaphambi kokulala kunokunceda ikati yakho izolile ebusuku kwaye ikuncede ulale kamnandi.
25. Iikati ziba nomsindo kakhulu ebusuku kwaye kufuneka zilungelelanise iwotshi yemizimba yazo. Dlala ngayo ngakumbi emini, mayilale kancinci; Kwaye udlale nayo kancinci ngaphambi kokulala ebusuku. Ungadlala imijikelo emithathu, umjikelo wokuqala udiniwe ukuphumla imizuzu embalwa, emva koko umjikelo wesibini udiniwe ukuphumla imizuzu embalwa phambi kokuba udlale umjikelo wesithathu. Emva koko unokumnika ukutya okumnandi, kwaye mhlawumbi uya kulala ubusuku bonke. Oku akusebenzi kangako kumantshontsho aneenyanga ezimbalwa ubudala kuba anamandla. I-26 kitten (iinyanga ezi-2 ukuya ku-1 unyaka ubudala) ikhohlakele, ithanda ukukrwela nokuluma abantu, yindalo, njengomntwana okhohlakeleyo ovukelayo, eyona ndlela ingcono kukunyamezela + ukufihla, ungadlali ngayo, ukusebenzisa intonga yekati. Dlala ngayo ukusetyenziswa ngakumbi kwamandla ayo omzimba, kuya kuba nzima kuwe "ukuhlasela". Sika iinzipho zakhe rhoqo. 27. Iikati zineenkumbulo ezintle kakhulu. Ukuba uchitha ubuncinane iinyanga ezimbalwa kunye nekati, iya kukukhumbula ixesha elide, ubuncinane emva konyaka okanye isiqingatha. Okukhona sichitha kunye, kokukhona sikhumbula. Ukuba anizange nibe kunye ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo, ikati iya kukulibala malunga nawe emva kwexesha, ngaphandle kokuba kukho into echukumisayo eyenzekayo phakathi kwakho. Iikati zomntwana zineenkumbulo ezimbi kunabantu abadala.
Ixesha lokuposa: Oct-13-2022