1. Emva kokuba iphululwe, iyazikhotha kwaye incasa ivumba. Livumba leekati esilivayo esingenakulijoja.umenzi wempahla yezinja
2. Iindlela eziqhelekileyo zokubonisa "uthando" kukugubungela umsila wakho, uthinte umlenze wakho ngentloko okanye umzimba wakho, kwaye uphulule umva wendlebe yakho okanye ubuso ngokuchasene nawe. Umbono kukushiya ivumba eliqhelekileyo kuwe ukuze ulenze likhululeke ngakumbi, okanye mhlawumbi likuphathe njengomntu ongaphantsi kwalo.umenzi wempahla yezinja
3. Ukukukhotha, njengokukhotha ezinye iikati, kubonisa “ukuthembana nothando.”umenzi wempahla yezinja
4. Xa ikati ilele emathangeni akho, kufuneka ikuchukumise. Ayinakutsibela ethangeni lomntu elingamthandiyo.
5. Xa ekuzisela isipho (njengempuku efile), kubonisa ukuba une "crush" kuwe, kwaye kubonisa nokuba ucinga ukuba "ungunina" wakhe.
6. Ikati enomsila othe tye ibonisa uthando olunamandla. Uya kuqaphela ukuba umsila wekati ujinga phantsi xa isondela ebantwini okanye kwiikati engazaziyo.
8. Ukubeka inzipho engalweni kuphinda kubethelele ukuba “inokutyumza” kuwe.
9. Xa ithe chu igoba umqolo wayo ize ikuphulule umlenze wakho, ithi, “Ndiyakuthanda.”
10. Iikati purr ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi. Ukuba bayakugxeka xa bekugxeka, "bakuthanda ngokwenene."
Kwimeko yendalo, iikati njengezilwanyana ezizimeleyo, ziphucula amathuba okuphila kuxhomekeke kubo. Iikati ngokwendalo zoyika ngakumbi kunezilwanyana ezihlala ngokwamaqela, njengabantu nezinja. Iikati ezingawoyikiyo amanzi zidla ngokurhaxwa, kwaye ukoyika amanzi yeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokuphila nokuzala. Uloyiko nobuntununtunu, kanye sisiphumo sokhetho lwendalo, ukusinda kwabo banamandla. 3. Kutheni iikati zixinezeleka ngokulula? Ngaba izenzisa kakhulu? Iikati zasekhaya zixinezeleka ngokulula kuba zihlala kwibutho labantu lanamhlanje. Ookhokho babo kumawaka eminyaka eyadlulayo abazange babone iimoto, beve iziqhushumbisi kunye nemihombiso, okanye babe noxinzelelo oluphezulu lwabantu (imiba yabantu + ukungabikho kwamarhamncwa endalo). Izinyanya zeekati zinokubaleka amarhamncwa okanye zikhwele emithini. Ukuba uyazicaphukela ezinye iikati, unokufuduka uye kuhlala kude. Kukwakho nemingxuma emithini okanye ematyeni ekhusi, ngoko ke uxinezeleko oluninzi lunokuyeka ngexesha. Yimeko-bume eyingozi ngokuphindwe kakhulu kunesixeko esingabantu, kodwa bakhelwe ukuqhelana nayo, kwaye kulapho uxinezeleko luvela khona. Iikati zixhomekeke kuxinzelelo, olungenakuphepheka phantsi kwesiseko "sokugcina iikati kwisixeko". Kanye njengokuba ufuna umzabalazo kwisixeko esikhulu, unyawo, kufuneka ubhekane nokhuphiswano oluphezulu kunye noxinzelelo lobomi, umahluko kukuba: abantu banokukhetha, kwaye ikati ayikwazi.
Ixesha lokuposa: Dec-28-2022