1. Qwalasela ubuntu bekati yakho. Zonke iikati zinomdla,umenzi wokubopha injakodwa kufuneka ubone ukuba banomdla kangakanani kwihlabathi langaphandle. Abanye abantwana banokuthetha kuphela ephepheni, njengokuma efestileni ukujonga ngaphandle, kodwa xa ucango luvuleka, baleka umva, okanye iindwendwe zasekhaya ziya kufihla ukuze zifumane, oku akukhuthazwa ukuba uphume uhambe, unokuba novalo kakhulu. okanye uxinezeleko…… Ukuba ikati inobubele, okanye ayikoyiki ukubona umntu wasemzini endlwini, ize ivule ucango izulazule kwizinyuko, ifuna ukwaziumenzi wokubopha injajonga indawo, le yitalente ethambileyo enokulinywa ukuhambahamba. Umgaqo woqeqesho kuqala uchaze uqeqesho oluphuma kumgaqo, njengoko umzali kufuneka enze njalo: kufuneka abe esweni ngexesha lokwenyani!! Ungaze uthembele kakhulu kwizakhono zekati! Awunakuze ukhuseleke kakhulu! Ukumkhupha ukuze adlale akuthethi ukuba umkhuphele ngaphandle kwaye ulindele ukuba abuye yedwa, ngakumbi kunye naye, ngakumbi njengomgcini. Musa ukuthembela kakhulu kwizakhono zekati yakho. Basenokuxinga kwimeko kaxakeka kwaye bangakwazi ukuya ekhaya okwethutyana. Ezi zidalwa zifihliweyo ziyakubukela ubaleka ujikeleza ngaphandle kokuthetha nelimdaka xa ubaleka…umenzi wokubopha injaNgoko ke kufuneka ukwazi oko phambi kokuba uyiphuhlise, kwaye kufuneka uhlale uvavanya ikati… 3. Incwadi yoqeqesho Ukuba uhlala kwisakhiwo, unganxiba intambo (yonke ingongoma kukuba uziqhelanise nesakhiwo intambo) kwaye udlale kwizinyuko kuqala. Ukuba izitepsi zivaliwe unokumvumela ukuba ajikeleze ngaphandle kwentambo. Jonga ubudlelwane bakhe nomninimzi wakhe okanye ubudlelwane bakhe nosapho lwakhe. Umzekelo: Xa intshontsho lekati lethu lingaphezu konyaka ubudala, liqalisa ukuhlola ipaseji. Uyathanda ukuya phezulu nasezantsi. Emva kokuhamba ithutyana, uya kuma akulinde, okanye akufowunele xa ungezi.
Uziva ekhuselekile xa enomnini wakhe kufutshane kwaye unokuhlola indawo ekude. Sekunjalo khumbula, musa ukumyeka asuke phambi kwakho! Akakhumbuli phantsi kwaye angalahleka. Okanye mhlawumbi ummelwane uvula ucango aze amoyikise. Ngoko ukhuseleko luza kuqala! Ungalindeli ukuba agoduke yedwa! Xa uqhelene nepaseji, uye wadlala akukho fun, unokucinga ngokuhlola uluntu. Ukuhlola uluntu kunokuba nzima, ngakumbi xa kukho abantu abaninzi kunye nezinja ezininzi. Unokukhetha ikona ethe cwaka enabantu abambalwa, unxibe intambo yokukhokela (logama nje uphuma endlwini ukuba unxibe) kwaye umbambe apho kangangexesha elithile, ehleli kwibhentshi yamatye okanye ebambe isitendi okanye ephindaphinda kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, phantse uziva eqhelene nayo inokuphuma ezingalweni zakho kwaye utsibe emhlabeni ukuze uhlolisise. Xa uphonononga, ukuba awufuni ukuba ahambe engceni, unokutsala kancinci kwaye umazise ukuba uthetha ukuthini. Ukugoduka kusenokuba kukuwola kude; Ukuba udibana nomntu okanye into esoyikisayo, efana nenjana, yiphakamise ngokukhawuleza ukuze uyikhusele, kungenjalo isenokukutsala ubaleka… Kwaye kungcono ungamvumeli ukuba atye phandle… Nangona uninzi lweekati lungazukwazi. ukuya, kodwa abanye abantwana bathanda ukuhlafuna ingca (ingca yekati ayityiwa ekhaya, ingca ityelwe phandle) kwaye iba kanye ngenyanga ukwenza unyango olulungileyo lokunyanga iintshulube ~ basic or safe ~ ukuba uhlala kwindawo yokuhlala, okanye une iyadi encinci eyonwabe ngakumbi. Ungamthatha kuqala ukuze aqhelane nokusingqongileyo kweyadi encinci. Ukuba uyavuya ngokwenene, unokuhlala ngaphakathi komgca wokujonga kwaye ukhuseleke (udonga luphezulu?). Khulula i-leash phantsi kokusingqongileyo kwaye uhlolisise ngokwakho unxibe isifuba kuphela kunye nomva. Ngeli xesha, ukuba udlula eludongeni… Yayisisiqalo sembali eso, oko kuthetha ukuba wayengasekho ekhayeni lakho kwaye yayilixesha lokuphonononga ihlabathi ngokubanzi… Ukuba oko kuyenzeka, cinga ngokuthenga indawo oza kuyenza ngesifuba sakho. kwaye umva. Kakade ke, le meko kunokwenzeka ukuba ibaleke, okanye idlale ngaphandle ingafuni kugoduka, oku kuxhomekeke kubazali ukuba bayibeke njani na imithetho… Umhendi kunye nekati ngokwabo bayahlolana, kwaye okunokwenzeka emva kokuziqhelanisa baninzi kwaye abaninzi.
Ixesha lokuposa: Oct-31-2022